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Among the many phases of life, becoming a parent and then playing the role of a parent is very challenging for any one. Because this is a phase where you voluntarily take up the responsibility of bring up and molding the life of another human, and doing this is no easy task. There are many qualities that you need to develop as a parent. But one of the most challenging thing is to practice that which you preach to the children. Yes, we all know that children mainly learn from observing, their surroundings the people they come in contact with, friends and others. As a parent, you can command them to do this and to do that. But behavior patterns and communication children learn from seeing the parents and other members in the family. Your behavior pattern right from the way we talk, walk, the way we dress and the way we interact all this leaves a lasting impression on the Childs behavior. Many of the elder’s live under an assumption that they are mer...

Money is an instrument that can be used for the good or for the bad of the people; it depends on the people who are using it, and for what they are using it. Now a days we hear lot of this stuff that money is bad, and most of us tend to think that, money degenerates people, and those who are wealthy are bad and have no ethical or moral values. But the fact is entirely different. Not all those who have money are bad, or have earned it by bad means, and not everyone who has no money is ethically or morally right. As long as we allow money to be our servant it can do wonders to you and to others, it leads to development and progress of the individuals in many ways. But if we become its slave then it takes us for a ride. If we can associate aright cause for earning and accumulating money then there is no harm in accumulating money or earning it. Your aim should be to earn ethically and morally what you need to fulfill the needs of yourself and of those dependent on you. And the rest of ...

Every moment of our life we knowingly or unknowingly involve in decision making. Either for ourselves or for the ones we are concerned about. Decision making is a very important aspect of every one’s life. When decisions are to be made, there are so many aspects that need to be considered. There are some kinds of decisions that are made on a yes or no basis, should I do this or should not. This involves contemplation, and a bit of struggle. For example the ones involving Morals, should I drink alcohol or should I not. ? What if I consume alcohol? These decisions need to be made by assessing the pros and cons, what if I do, or what if I don’t? What will be the end result where will it lead me to? Then there are other kinds of decisions, where in you have lots of alternatives and choices. Do I need to buy a t. v or a mobile now, do I need it that badly, or do I have a necessity? Then once you come to a conclusion as to you need it or not. Once you make a decisio...

The main reason, as to, why students are losing interest in studies is that, education is thrust upon them as some sort of burden, which they have to bear by compulsion, there is lot of pressure on the students from the college, and parents, as each and every parent wants to see their child as a ranker or as a topper, and corporate colleges are literally squeezing life out of students. Education is no more a self development tool, and a means to acquire worldly knowledge, it has become mere means of earning salary, and to keep oneself ahead in the bread winning race. Lecturers and professors are concerned with completing syllabus and parents are concerned with ranks and grades, but no one is really bothered as to what the student is gaining. Students are expected just to mug up the syllabus and literally vomit it in the exams, nothing else, there is no scope for them to contemplate on the ideas, understand the real concept behind the subject, they are not given the freedom even to ex...

It is very essential to balance your life and work, the pressure of work should not weigh high on your life. Work is something that everybody loves to do in order achieve their goals. The biggest question is at the cost of life, sounds awards, isn't it. There is a good saying 'Nobody fails to plan, but many fail to Plan'. The meaning is the proper planning will help you to attain the goal, but if you fail to plan properly let alone achieving the goal. Planning and execution share major role in achieving the goal. So, if you want to be very successful, plan, reduce the pressure your feel from you work, try to involve in the social activities. Those are the some of the DIY tips for everyone. Many people like me give free suggestion without knowing the situation or pressure of the person. I feel its very simple to make suggestion but hard to follow though. Frankly speaking, I too failed on most of occasion in planning and executing. If those could be on right path, I woul...

On November 16th, India observed the National Press Day. Amid the statements over regulating press, watching some debates over the ethics and regulation, I have been planning to pen down my thoughts on Press and its role in the society, now got the opportunity at least share my views.  I worked with English Daily, Hitavada and ETV Network. I learn many things about the press and its standard role in the society.  While attending training at the Ramoji Film City in Hyderabad, I learn many good thing about press. I believe the Press stands for freedom of speed and expression in the interest of the society. The father of nation, Mahatma Gandhiji told that uncontrolled pen would destroy the society.  Similarly controlled pen severs the society in many ways. The investigative journalism which is the core, and bring the hidden truth, I support to that. People have every right to know about the country and leaders. If press brings any wrong to public, then its credib...