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  Handling sensitive issues is one the toughest jobs for many (of course, including me). Never know what outcome you’d witness while handling sensitive issues. From your point of view, the situation might be simple and very easy to handle, but when you consider the other side of the issue from other person’s point of view you’d come know about your new identity. Right exactly when we try to solve a problem – sensitive issues in relationship, you completely put weight on your version only leaving the opinion of the other person. There you are making it more complex than it used to in the initial phase. Without taking the perception of other’s we usually try to make our things to work out to reach point, but hardly do we know that we are running at just opposite directions, so never we reach a point to meet. What could be done to reach at solution, don’t make any steps in haste – it would spoil your approach further. Try to analyze the approach of your partner, see on what basi...

It is obvious that out relationship is subject to many issues involving us into unrest at a time we need peace very badly. And that is not case of any one person or any one family, but could happen to many of us. Nobody plans to being trapped into such situation but the time has greatest weapons against your will. And interestingly most of the cases involved no serious issues at all, some start with a minor spat, right? When you are planning for the best thing in your life, suddenly one day the black day (a day when all the relationships end automatically) strikes like lightening and you watch it helpless. Spat that look small gradually would become a big one leaving no answers for the affected most. It would be wrong to say that few tips would work out and make your relationship intact from breaking up. None of the tips looks impressive at all since your mind would in fuss to accept anything. Thank god that time which cause wound has the same time to heal it that says time repay...

It is always good to learn the lessons first before going to teach those to children. In most cases, we may fail follow those in our life in practical. Being adult we ignore many lessons that we have learned in our childhood, but try to thrust those on our kids. Kids learn all the activities from us and any wrong we do that would not be left by the children rather they accept it as one of the other lessons. The fact can’t be denied that it is hard to follow the principles in our life. And that reason should not stop us to make our kids teach good lessons in life. Simply for example, we ask kids to speak truth, but in many cases we don’t follow that as well. And even in cases we do lie to kids, and they pretend to be fact. When they came to know that we lied to them, they start following the same trend. Nobody is perfect in this world and we know that kids would follow our footsteps. So it is never late to start a new life with changing ourselves first then we would try to concrete ...

When it comes to balancing life and work, many fail to strike the perfect balance as required. And that makes life measurable and its routine story of every individual. Passion for work is the best thing you have and one enjoys it while working. On the flip side, the life means personal life gets struck somewhere between confusion and decision. Everyone wants to be happy with their life having the work they are associated with. But somewhere these two aspects of life cross together leaving repellent personal life. Being workaholic could be good sometimes but not always, the relationship expects more from you no matter what you do or how you manage things. The art of  balancing is the hard thing for many (including me), one should think carefully about it. To say there are many tips to follow to balance your life and work, but the major thing is that are you ready to accept a change in your life. If not then biggest ideas may fail to convince you.

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”~Eleanor Roosevelt, former First Lady of the United States Always dream big for your future and try to achieve it. Chasing dreams is much similar chasing your goals. Never disappoint yourself not being at the position to achieve it. Look at the world and people trying hard to get things done. Learn from their dedication, whenever you see a successful people; just think about how they made their dream into reality today. You never know what lies there for in the world of future, so need to worry about that. Present is your time to act not to lose with only planning for future. And the fact also needs to accept that all the people can’t be successful and chances are there that you would be one among them. A person is wise who failed after several try than who didn’t. In the journey of life, many incidents (not necessarily happy) moments struck in mid path – leaving you in puzzle about your future action. But you...

Being happy is the most important than wealthier life style. Still people are in search for new definition of happiness around their world. But the fact is the, it is mere perception and state of mind. Popular saying goes like that “making happy someone is the noble deed than any other in the world”. Why to wait for, let the world change according to need of the hours, got it? Gandhiji said “be the change you with to see”. So the ball is your court and you need to start the task to make the world happy. Never take it mistakenly that you need to change and make happy millions of people living in the world. No, simply make a person near you, then the world would be happy, and the chain effect should bring into action, my friend. It is not a philosophy for mankind but need of the hours, be a smiling face would fix all the problems and stress automatically. Never tried, just make one person happy and see the impact on you and the world. Bib things starts from small step,...