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Among the many phases of life, becoming a parent and then playing the role of a parent is very challenging for any one. Because this is a phase where you voluntarily take up the responsibility of bring up and molding the life of another human, and doing this is no easy task. There are many qualities that you need to develop as a parent. But one of the most challenging thing is to practice that which you preach to the children. Yes, we all know that children mainly learn from observing, their surroundings the people they come in contact with, friends and others. As a parent, you can command them to do this and to do that. But behavior patterns and communication children learn from seeing the parents and other members in the family. Your behavior pattern right from the way we talk, walk, the way we dress and the way we interact all this leaves a lasting impression on the Childs behavior. Many of the elder’s live under an assumption that they are mer...

It is obvious that out relationship is subject to many issues involving us into unrest at a time we need peace very badly. And that is not case of any one person or any one family, but could happen to many of us. Nobody plans to being trapped into such situation but the time has greatest weapons against your will. And interestingly most of the cases involved no serious issues at all, some start with a minor spat, right? When you are planning for the best thing in your life, suddenly one day the black day (a day when all the relationships end automatically) strikes like lightening and you watch it helpless. Spat that look small gradually would become a big one leaving no answers for the affected most. It would be wrong to say that few tips would work out and make your relationship intact from breaking up. None of the tips looks impressive at all since your mind would in fuss to accept anything. Thank god that time which cause wound has the same time to heal it that says time repay...

Finding happiness the major thing that one always look for. Being happy every moment of your life is impossible completely, reject it, right? No if you listen to some of the great motivational speakers, you may over come from the illusion that it can't be. One may not find happiness outside since it is the feeling from with-in. And the fact is that there is no road map to it, of there is not road leading to happiness in your life. We miss to enjoy the life and eventually the real happiness because we post-pond our celebrtion to being happy. We set some parameters to be happy every time. Like when I'll purchase a car I'd be happy or so. There may be en-number of instances you build in your life to stop yourself from being happy. Just look at the flip side of the life - every moment of the life is filled with happiness, since it need your conscience to be happy. Just allow the occasion to cheer you, never stop those by setting goals to be happy at certain point...

Being health is as much important as saying fit to carry out your work effectively. One must undergo the fitness training in order to learn the exercise to work out daily. Not only women, it has been important for all including kids, (those having obesity or similar case). Daily work-out would keep all of us healthy and fit, that allow us to lead a good and healthy life. There are many experts imparting training on the fitness and healthy life-style, and those could also be available on internet. For that you need to just look for some good video on Youtube and start following them. After-all, learning from an expert is always recommended than own experiments, which could lead to disaster or major health ailment in long-run. Before the you start the fitness experiences at home, try to have a time-table, and that also including the exercises poses your going to have at a particular time. Never mind learning from others, ask them for the tips, and might be those are very e...

Right, yes, best thing in the world is to listen your heart and follow it. Start acting on the requests your heart makes to you, thing about those seriously. And you'll find that its not the wrong thing your doing by listening your heart. Many believe that person who listen inner voice may be in wrong sometimes but in long-run that could be the best option one had. Inner voice in nothing but your true and wish that is in your heart, those who listen to their heart, may face difficulty initially but gain a lot in the end. From the corner of heart, you'll see a different world, and you assume that you need to know many things from these good people around you. Accepting the truth and good things from the people around you is the best thing and your heart always ready to accept it, no matter from whom your learning these things. When it comes to matter with you heart and inner-voice, try to balance your mind and take the best judgement, that could proved the best one ...

Relationship is the key to your success in life, and requires you prime attention and care towards your family members. Never let them feel that you've changed a lot or the relationship is at the verge of break-up. A slight change in your attitude could lead to big disaster, try not to change it. Photo Credit: www.solongmediocrity.com May there be many issues and problems strike in the life, but believing your partner is the best thing you can do, and after all, your partner is going to stand by you everytime you need the most. Sometimes thing go out from your hands, and your are not able to counsel the problem that taking toll on you relationship. It is always better to gauge the situation all the time and it requires only less time to patch up your relationship defects if any you notice. Believe in your relationship and tell your partners that how you feel good about the relationship and if need any changes from the other hand simply put the word. Unless you...

Relationship is the ultimate which shows you the path of leading life. Without it, life is meaning less. Emotional bonding is the root cause for the existence of the society, civilization and state. Being in relationship with others, we do care for them and expect the same from them. Human life has great gift of expressing their feelings. Where there are strong relationship, there is strong feelings over one another. It may be any kind of relationship, it has the great value in life. Maintaining proper relationship is an art, and art of living. In society, it is very essential to maintain best relationship with other and family members. There are many way to build up good relationship, but the core is that you need to make the other person feel that you care for him or her. Never hurt anybody in any manner, that may cause to fullstop to your relationship. But the cases of compulsion to stay with, there the definition to relationship changes. Manta for strong relationship...

Being happy is the best thing in life, and its also the biggest factor to turn on. Yes, there could be many situation in the life, which are very hard to forget and cope with the present life. It is very easy to counsel and give suggestions on sensitive issues, but to follow self, when it demands. Most the people you meet are good at giving advice and suggestions, when you counter them about their experience in handling such situation, you'll come to that they are also alike you. Best thing in life is the be happy, that all knows. But how, no body knows, because their life is different from one another. Problems are different, so as the solutions. One particular solution may not be applicable for the another problem. Beauty of life lies in the problems, if there would no problems then one would be able to measure the happiness is in life. Life is full of colors like rainbow, any particular color may cause sorrow not all. And out all the colors in your life you like one the...

Major concern for parents is to look after their kids, during hard time, particularly when their kids are sick. Often  kids have health aliments, which required prime attention and care from their parents. Being parents, it has been hard time to feel the pain of kids, when they are being under going treatment. Of course, the medical practices are good enough and sure to help you the way you wanted to be. But the process too involves tough judgement and patience. It can't be a regular practice to visit medical for the check-ups or treatment, rather one should also find the home ready made remedies those can be terms are temporary diagnosis or fist-aid support. Never let the kids to take their health, if they report to you then its good indication that you have plenty of time to get well the kids from the ailment. If not, then its you, who need to take the first action towards treatment. Really its very hard to keep up with the check-ups and involving in treatment proces...

When your grilled with financial crisis, let the family members know about it and not share any of such difficulties with kids. As a kid, they have not grown up to the stage where they could assess your financial status. Their world is very limited to toys, fun, chocolates. What will happen if you share your financial burden with kids, at first they may not able understand what it is all about, and why your so tensed with it. And if they understood about the exact problem, then that might hamper their studies and recreation. Which could not be gained or bring back normalcy, once gone out of hand. The financial crisis might not last for long, but the loss to your kids would be much comparing it in financial term. Lets the kids live alike they have been adapted to. You can mange the crisis and let them know they will become adult to understand the society and need of money in life.

Is there something that makes you feel special for someone? Well, if you have strong feeling about any person or any thing, it is because of you like the most about it other things or person. Feelings are the thought intrigued in your brain while thinking about or meeting the person you like most or favorite thing. Having strong feelings in your mind indicates that your have strong mentality and your are serious person on all the aspects of your life. There is authentication about the above statement, but purely a thought of the writers that not based on any scientifically evidences. Feeling are there, those need to be expressed or shared, that not said in other words. And its not about any love or romance, its about just strong feeling on like and dislike. And if you have any strong feeling, start right away and share, and see you'd feel relaxed. Sharing feeling will make your bonding even stronger, I believe.

What is the definition of happy family? A family is living happily or a family having happy members. Well that seems a tough question tough for me to write about. But I'll try to write about it in today's post. It is not important that how you live, but it matter to all are you happy or not. Spending time with family members, cutting jokes and have splendid time with members are evening sound like dream for may, because of work culture or stress. There are many more people those are successful make out they way to success in having happy family despite stress and peak dead lines. No matter who you are or what position you have in your office, your family members would like to see you in happy and mixing with others. If possible, please don't take the work pressure to you home, otherwise your family members are also bound to share your burden too. It does not sound good that your family members should also share your work burden since they are with you? Think agai...

Are you having lots of problems and obstacles in life you want to overcome? Do not worry, it not the only your suffering, according to some experts of astrology, it is because of the year 2013 – the year of sun. And there will be lot of changes and obstacles for the people’s life, according to their predictions. And what about the foreign countries those do not believe in the Indian astrology or vastu sashtra? Since importance has been given to jyotish sahstra (astrology) and vastu sashstra in India, and in western there are many sort of things those are similar these. If you trying to find the solution or finding perfect art to get rid of these problems, then you need wait for a time being. Have patience, study the problems, what is making those very tough, also explore your own way of work style. Sometimes, you own working style may cause many problems; there you need to work diligently. Getting solution involves answers to your questions, so the problems are simply questi...

What it worth understanding each other in a married life? A lot will change if there lacked proper understanding between couple. In married life, the best thing is that one has life partner, a mate for life-time. That is a wonderful thing that you are going to lead a life with a partner for life. For happy life, couple should follow some best bonding and love conditions. The aim of life should be to share happiness by living happily. A healthy relationship is based on the healthy understanding and love. And the value of undestanding is alot, when it comes to live together or maintain a family. Always you think about your partner and his/her wishes, and fulfilling them is the big challenge but also give plenty of pleasure. During conflict, it is obvious to lose the temperament but keep in mind to use decent language and body language whenever you have hot argument there. Couples must follow some strict rules or behaviour in order to survive their family life out of any ho...

Kids and children of all ages need sufficient rest and sleep. Kid’s lack of sleep often results in, crankiness and crying . Kids below three years need morning and afternoon naps though they might sleep in the night. A young baby needs around 14 – 15 hours of sleep in a 24 hour cycle. New born babies and young babies tend to become drowsy while they are feeding, but babies above six months know how to keep themselves awake, so parents have to make new strategies to make them relax and go to sleep. On the other hand toddlers need around 10 – 12 hours of sleep during the night time apart from their afternoon nap. It is always best to put the kid to sleep before they become too tired and need to relax. There are certain symptoms that kids show, when they are tired, if you take the case of the new borns they start staring, clench their fists, they yawn and cry. In case of older babies, they lose interest in playing, show irritating behavior; they cry and rub their eyes. When ...

Perhaps this is the toughest job of parenting. Disciplining kids is a tough task, because, they will not be in an age, where in you can make them sit, talk to them, and make them understand. Nor, can you punish them, and correct their behavior, because of their tender mind and body. We often associate the word discipline, with punishment, or control, but the real meaning of discipline is, to impart knowledge and skill. Discipline should help the child, to cope up with the real world, in an effective way. It should help him build confidence and should make him, competent. Effective and positive discipline, is guiding, and teaching children, not to just force them, to obey us. Parents should correct any misbehavior, but in a way that it has a positive effect, on the child. Even though, you correct them and discipline them, kids should always have confidence that you are there to love them, and take care of them. This is the kind of confidence, you need...

Working women’s life is very challenging, it requires great amount of physical, and mental strength to cope up with the tasks associated with work, and in personal life. To be able to cope up with the work, and to do everything perfectly, you need to be fit. In this tight schedule, and busy life, it is not possible to spare time for exercising, but it is, a must to do activity, if you want to be fit. Because, exercising, and fitness routine, improves your health, and in turn, you will perform better at work, and in other areas of life. During the working hours you get a break for hour or so, for lunch, in that time after taking your lunch, take a walk in the fresh air. Or if it is not possible, to go somewhere else, you can walk in the office corridor itself. There are many busy people, in glamour field, and in business field, who exercise regularly, and they stick to their routine, no matter what happens. How is it possible for them, being so busy, ...

Some years back, a family was a family, and a home was a home, not just a house surrounded by four walls. The scenario has now, completely changed; today hardly you find any homes, and mostly all that you end up finding, are houses. Family has degraded itself, to merely four people living under a roof, and nothing more than that. Every one leading their own personal lives, in the name of privacy, and personal space. And kids ? Parents feel that, their personal relationship problems, are their own, and between the two. But the fact that they don’t understand is that, their misunderstandings, and behavior problems, effect, and influence the kids, in a great way. When kids see their parents quarreling, and blaming each other, they feel insecure. They grow up, developing, the feelings of, hate and insecurity. As parents, it is our fundamental responsibility, to see, that we give a proper positive environment, for our kids, to grow. If there are any mutual d...

Today in every house we find kids watching cartoons. Just to keep them occupied we make them watch cartoons, later on they become so addicted to them. That they hardly allow other to see any other program on television and start crying if we don’t allow them to see. Such is the effect of cartoons on kids. Kids now a day’s no more are interested in playing and outdoor activities, they are more interested to spend their time in front of the idiot box. Most of the time parents are busy in their own work and have no time to see what they are watching and what effect it has on them. If children spend time in playing and physical activities, their body and mind will become healthy. When they associate themselves with the friends of their age group they learn how to mingle with others and learn communication. Now a days we find hardly anyone doing this, if there is anything that is of interest to kids it is just watching cartoons. Today we find so many kids who are obese ...

A good sleep is must for healthy mind and body. Both men and women work much throughout the day and in the night, they need  good sleep to make themselves fit for the next day's task. Feeling lazy due to sleepless night might hamper your productivity and that is also not good for your health. Taking small nap in every interval for twenty to twenty five minuted are considered as very good for health. Taking complete rest during night is must of everyone, go realty to bet have sound sleep. That will make you feel very comfortable. There are many good sleeping positions for a good health, but it would be very good if you've having routine habit of sleeping in a particular position. Never change, since it may lead you to have sleepless night or sleeping disorder (somnipathy). There are may other tips you can follow to have good sleep in night. Take some the best tips that you feel you can work on to sleep well in night like, keep your mobile away from you bed, try ...