Effects of Parental Bonding on Kids

Some years back, a family was a family, and a home was a home, not just a house surrounded by four walls.

The scenario has now, completely changed; today hardly you find any homes, and mostly all that you end up finding, are houses.

Family has degraded itself, to merely four people living under a roof, and nothing more than that. Every one leading their own personal lives, in the name of privacy, and personal space. And kids?

Parents feel that, their personal relationship problems, are their own, and between the two. But the fact that they don’t understand is that, their misunderstandings, and behavior problems, effect, and influence the kids, in a great way.

When kids see their parents quarreling, and blaming each other, they feel insecure. They grow up, developing, the feelings of, hate and insecurity.

As parents, it is our fundamental responsibility, to see, that we give a proper positive environment, for our kids, to grow. If there are any mutual differences, you should sort it out, in the absence of children, and when in front of them, should show respect, and care towards each other.

Children learn, and imitate the behavior they see, and parents are their role models and home is their training ground. If kids see parents showing mutual respect, care, concern and love they imitate it.

So, as a parent, you should pay utmost care, to your behavior, and interaction with each other, and with others, especially, in their presence.

It has been a proven fact, in many researches, and studies, that kids who grow up in negative environment, feel insecure, and are depressed.

They lack confidence, and if, it is not corrected, at an early stage, leads to psychological disorders.

So, there is a very great responsibility, on all the parents, to give their kids, a positive and good atmosphere at home, through our conduct and behavior, for them to grow up. So that they come out as good humans and contribute towards a better society.