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Happiness is the real reason to live life. In the busy life, we often think of worthless things, those were the major reason for our sorrow. But, we often forget to see the flip side. If you see, there would be many reasons in life to feel happy. Those small incidents may be but give you the real happiness. Let’s not get into the materialistic world or any discussion on that, instead we can consider life as a bliss and we all are blessed by the almighty. Start living happily every day, in fact, try to live every moment of your life. Here I listed 10 ways to be happy in life: Smile:  A smile on your face even in the toughest time proves that you learned how to live a life fighting against odds. Your smile will inspire others to smile, and it will go on. Forgive : Whatever has happened in life is just a moment and in reality that phase has gone. By not forgiving others, we are welcoming the sorrow. Forget the past, live in present. Call a Friend : If are not happy, no probl...

Happiness is something that is out of reach of all of us. We try to find it everywhere and in everything. And, we behave like ignorant when it comes to finding it in life. No matter who you are, it is something that too important thing that you would like to retain throughout the life. There are many people who appear to be happy all the time. Nobody knows their state of mind, except their inner voice. Yes, this happens to you also, you listen to you inner voice always. Nobody can certify you happiness unless you are approve it. Life is learning process – we do fail in learning the perfect way to being happy in all the occasions. One fine day I came across about Bhagwat Geeta, and read some chapters. I would like to mention here that I am not well versed in those. To say, I mentioned this, there I found that who is really a happy person. A person who has no ego, treat everyone equally – that is something one need hard practice to attain this stage. That is very hard task to a...

If there is one thing that we wish we could have always, at all times and under all circumstances it is peace of mind. It is one thing that every human craves to have, whether a millionaire or a working person, man or a woman any one has only one common desire to lead a peaceful life. But the problem is that only few are able to lead a peaceful life. The reasons for experiencing peace vary from person to person. Some one finds peace in meditating, someone when he has money, someone when he is healthy. This is conditioned peace of mind but how to find peace even when you are not in those conditions when everything is going upside down. Is it ever possible to be peaceful under all circumstances and how ever the things and people are? Yes, there is something definitely you can do to lead a peaceful life under all circumstances. Let us look at those points. 1. Keep yourself away from negative feelings such as jealousy, and hatred. 2. Spend time with positive and...

If there is one best trainer in the entire world and if there is one best mentor in the world it is Life. Life teaches us so many valuable lessons, but the difference is some learn it while there is still time to correct and progress, and most of us learn when it is time to repent. Life is a process of preparation, in the childhood we study learn the basics of life and prepare ourselves, to lead a good life in future. When we are young we study, learn acquire skills, earn money again prepare ourselves to have a better family life. When we are getting to the middle age again we prepare ourselves for future, accumulate money, properties, and people, to lead a safe and secure life. During this process of preparation we learn so many valuable lessons that life teaches us. We also acquire so many qualities such as patience, compassion and love. In fact if we go deep and study, life itself is a chance given to us for preparation. To prepare ourselves towards the journey unknown, that ...

Running with time in the modern days we have long forgotten to laugh. Earlier people used to spend time together in the family they used to sit talk share lighter moments and people felt so relieved and close to each other in this act and the bonds became strong. But today hardly we find time to sit together and share a word. So, most of the people have forgotten to laugh, and hardly find any such situations. But from the health point of view laughing is very necessary and should be a part of our daily life. There are many studies that reveal the health benefits of laughter. So, even though we may not genuinely feel like laughing, we should try to laugh artificially. Because, the good news is that, the brain cannot distinguish between false or genuine laugh. All it knows is to turn off the stress hormones when you laugh and release the endorphins that will keep you away from stress and help you stay healthy. There are many such benefits of laughing let us look at those. ...

Amid the uncertainty, everybody is confused with the life they lead. Obvious, exception is there for many smart people. In a sense to term smart does not mean and extra quality in any person, but their planned things make them smart. Every moment of life is full of uncertainty and suspense. If you ready to face the music that quite interesting. But lets consider, how does a lay man thinks about the uncertainty. Those are not smart enough to lead a life, would always be in puzzle and frustration. Right thing that once everyone faces situation in  their life and that is for sure. How to find sure fire ways to prepare for a best life in uncertainty scenario? The answer is very simple in fact, just try to concentrate that whether you tackled things very well or not. Most of the time, your emotions land you in trouble, no need any enemy for that. Control you emotions, just check the facts and truth before considering anything. Try to burst the myths in you mind about any ...

Life is not easy as you think of others living a good or royal life. In fact, every one in this world has been going through various test in life - just to say in one sentence - life is a difficult exam. When we do refer life to exam, it is obvious that it would be difficult one. And the term exam would lose its glory if it is not difficult. Life is a difficult exam for all not only you as our are in trouble you feel. Whether it may be a rich person or poor, their life is too difficult for them. And other perception about the life might not a good fit as example for your life. When you think that life is not smooth, then your exam time has been started. Never look back what you did that caused the present scenario, rather one should focus on the present time and current exiting hurdles in life. Most of the people do refer to their past happening and waste time in counting those. Not not that you should not but it should not again affect your life since once it already stru...

The reason why we find an increase in suicide rate today is that. People feel they are not worth living or they have nothing to accomplish or they can accomplish nothing they don’t find a definite reason or purpose to live life. We also find that people when they become old, and are free of responsibilities and burdens, feel that they have nothing to do, then they start thinking about death. All the early years of life are spent in thinking about the career, family life, responsibilities or burdens and preparing for them. So, we don’t think about anything else. But at one point of time, when we feel that we don’t have anything to do anything to accomplish they we start developing these thoughts of death. So it is very important that to have a extended life or to live long it is very important to set goals at every stage of life. There is higher and purpose that God has set for each and every one of our life. Life is not just to live for the sake o...

Positive thoughts are the best things you have in your mind. Of course, there circumstances may need sacrifice and need to compel with a life that you don’t want at all. So what is the cause you to panic for each and every odds in your life. Life is not smooth for all, everyone in the world is having bunch of troubles around. Those know the technique of positive thinking or lifestyles they have been living happily keep away all the tension for a while. We need to train our minds to see that we reach to our destination or goal at a good pace and time. No matter what you do or in what situation you’re tangled with, you’re lucky that still there are plenty of good and positive thoughts in your mind. Don’t wait till the end, start to have positive thoughts in your mind, and try to change the situation and if at all you fail….. Everyday teaches a new lesson, so learn from the mistakes and try not to repeat those at least. Mind is everything that makes a small thing into a big p...

Many might not be keeping in mind that what they have learn from the day that passed by from the life, but do some. In everyday life, we don't remembers simple and small things but they do matter much in the life while dealing with all the situations. For instance, if you had witnessed the same trouble alike once  in the other day in your life, then it could be easy for you to tackle it full confidently. Why not to take the challenges we face everyday, here I've referred everyday mean the problem might strike again if happened once in our life. No, not at all I'm telling about the problems only, there are many more happy incidents and those may repeat again. Since we do think and concern about many negative things so its obvious that we do count the negative first there, right? The aim of the post is to say  that everyday is not same but problems may be. Well be prepared not have panic since you had once faced the problem and not this one for the first time. ...

Living happy is not easy as you see suggesting personas in the everyday life. Living happy lies in the state of mind of a person, not on the projection or suggestion another’s statement over others life. If one would want to be happy and live happily, then he or she needs to purify their thoughts. That does not mean they think wrong either, that says they need to develop contact practice of ignoring things that hurt them most. Mind is everything that makes you happy and sad, and once you get mastery over controlling mind, then state of being is your own choice. But it is not easy as you think, lots of patience required to overcome all the obstacles you face while walking on the path. Some say contrary to this, and they may be right as well. Whenever you decided to opt a path to be happy, then sure to leave the things or person – hurt you most. Yes, that may be difficult to even think but reality to act. Once you decide, go for it, you’d see that your happy comparing to the e...

A person may be most time thinks that he or she has been covered by negative thoughts. The thoughts could be positive, when a person realizes that his mind has become a factory that producing negative thoughts. Brain has more power to check the production of negative thoughts and turn those into positive. The person would be a victim of the negative thoughts from when he or she starts the transformation process to convert those in positive. The transformation is a long-run process since the situation around him or she could not change in the short-run. With the changing scenario, one needs to stick to their commitment level – not to entertain the negative thoughts further to saturate the life. This needs a big determination and battle like situation each and every day for the person who try to transform negative into positive. It is easy for others to give suggestions that you couldn’t implement in real life, but hard to follow as well. Just wait for the day, where you would really...

While checking the news feed on the facebook, I came across to a wonderful quote that read ‘the best way to forget bad things in life is to remember the good things’, which the main inspiration to write this post. Life is a combination of bad things and good things that is mere truth that everybody knows and experiences. Hardly do there any person who denies the bad things him or her experiences in life because of someone else in their life. These two things narrate the happiness and sorrow in life. It is more important in life to judge first before tagging or categorizing things in life as good or bad. And one is wrong in judging life either, who knows best than the person who is tagging. We often rampant for the things we do in life – mistakes, and these are the root causes for our sorrow. The common tendency is to blame others for the grief we have in our life, wait a minute rewind the actions associated with the bad things. Did you notice any your role that made you to categorize ...

Life is not easily sailing for most of us and all are engaged in finding the exact reason for that. Basically, when you are going through a tough time, it is obvious to make mistakes because of aggression, and that make sense too. The tough time is not easy to handle thus. While looking for the solution also focus on the things you matter or care for. The easy method to get things done and streamline you goals. During the tough time, everything look like shattered here and there, your ambitions, goals and responsibilities. What you can do is the just focus on the things you matter much. Many don't concentrate on the things they should, and at the end it become a daunting task for them to get everything organized. Just say, I can manage and I'm cool in handling the things looks like downside to you. Cheer up, life is not easy for all including you not that you only facing such problems buddy.

Giving priority or prominence is one of the core aspects of relationship. One should always follow it considering other persons while having relationship. Bonding needs the guidance and care, which could be possible by giving prominence. There are many stories defining the importance of priority in relationship. Experts do believe that most the unrest cause due to the lack of prominence in relationship. It does not mean you need to take care of the other personal all the time but giving attention whenever there is conversation is going. There are many forms of communication that human being use to convey their message. And non-verbal communication could be very effective way to show that you really care about the person, if there is unrest in the relationship. No need to give entire attention rather pay little attention and other person should also accept to it to maintain the relationship. Your attitude should not reflect that there is no room for the person you are taki...

Life is a simple word carrying millions of means and experiences in it. Many of us the brighter side of the life i.e., happiness and enjoyment, while for some others the flip side has been haunting all the time. Ask a person, who witnessed all the bitterness of life, about the meaning of the life, sure that you are not going to get positive thinking or some other sort of answer from that guy. Rather he/she would count the bitter experience and try to find out a suitable meaning from within. And that is not fault of the person, but that is one of the aspects of the life, whereas other persons born having all the enjoyments define in other way. For them those are the funs of life, but life is not a fun at all. For many those don’t know the real meaning of life or never experienced any bitter moments they can gauge the depth of the sorrow one person having in life. Those think the life is fun, for them they need to know the life yet. The real challenges and struggles in life make you ...

Law of universe or nature is everywhere, all the time with you. It works and changes your life, but you need to focus on this to know its greater role in your life. The nature has power to return you many things according to your deed. Simple logic is that you are going to get the same what you have for others. Finding happiness without understanding the law of nature could be a waste thing. Try to understand and accept the truth about the law that Mother Nature or universe set forth for all human being and creatures. Happiness is a state of mind and one should evaluate the scenario before making decision whether he or she is really happy or not. Nothing can change you expect you mind, one need to cultivate mind to bring changes in you. Once you realize that you are on the path of change from inside – your near to your goal. Your have power to transform the world, but for that you need to transform yourself first. Change begins from you says the law. Try to accept the truth that you...

Everybody has wishes and desires about their life and often dream about how it should be. Living a happy life is more important for us, since happiness is the ultimate directions we have been looking for. The title of this post justifies the definition about the life and aspirations we have for it. No matter where you are or what you position is, but dreaming big is the natural process, one should not be blamed for that. But most of us do forget the action part to realize the dream or to make the life a really king size. That does not mean a royal life at all, since that could not be possible. If you’re thinking of material world and material worldliness, the some extent that is right, but not fit for all the occasions. Living life should be in a direction such – everyday would be a happiest day in the life. And if that is possible then living happily is more truth, and not far from us. Most of us look the flipside – what we don’t have and give less importance to the blessing we hav...

  Handling sensitive issues is one the toughest jobs for many (of course, including me). Never know what outcome you’d witness while handling sensitive issues. From your point of view, the situation might be simple and very easy to handle, but when you consider the other side of the issue from other person’s point of view you’d come know about your new identity. Right exactly when we try to solve a problem – sensitive issues in relationship, you completely put weight on your version only leaving the opinion of the other person. There you are making it more complex than it used to in the initial phase. Without taking the perception of other’s we usually try to make our things to work out to reach point, but hardly do we know that we are running at just opposite directions, so never we reach a point to meet. What could be done to reach at solution, don’t make any steps in haste – it would spoil your approach further. Try to analyze the approach of your partner, see on what basi...

Being happy is the most important than wealthier life style. Still people are in search for new definition of happiness around their world. But the fact is the, it is mere perception and state of mind. Popular saying goes like that “making happy someone is the noble deed than any other in the world”. Why to wait for, let the world change according to need of the hours, got it? Gandhiji said “be the change you with to see”. So the ball is your court and you need to start the task to make the world happy. Never take it mistakenly that you need to change and make happy millions of people living in the world. No, simply make a person near you, then the world would be happy, and the chain effect should bring into action, my friend. It is not a philosophy for mankind but need of the hours, be a smiling face would fix all the problems and stress automatically. Never tried, just make one person happy and see the impact on you and the world. Bib things starts from small step,...